Sunday, February 27, 2011
Cancer Statistics in Children
Friday, February 25, 2011
Dash for a Difference for Boston Cares!
Dash for a Difference for Boston Cares!
An amazing five-hour adventure in volunteerism and teamwork.
Teams of "Dashers" will gather in downtown Boston at 9 a.m., when each will receive the first of the 10-12 destinations they must visit during the competition. At each destination, teams must complete tasks in order to have a passport stamped and receive their clue to the next destination. The majority of tasks will be mini-service projects; while others may be learning-oriented, where teams must piece together clues to gain points; and others will be "just for fun" assignments. All teams will be invited to toast the day's successes with snacks and beer at their final stop - the Samuel Adams Celebration of Service.
Where:
Throughout the Boston area.
When:
Saturday April 30, 2011, 9:00 AM - 2:00 PM.
Cause:
The Dash for a Difference benefits Boston Cares, a non-profit organization that mobilizes more than 25,000 volunteers annually in support of Greater Boston schools and non-profit agencies. The Dash also benefits the community agencies who will be aided by the collective efforts of more than 200 volunteers during the event.
Cost:
Each individual participant is responsible for raising a minimum of $100 in pledges.
For more information or to sign up: Visit www.bostoncares.org, or contact Lynn Pray,lpray@bostoncares.org, 617-422-0910 x200.
Thursday, February 24, 2011
My inner sex kitten... is about to make her public debut
All of that left me changed physically and mentally... left me emotionally drained and in need of constant reassurance that I was "okay"... whether I was cancer free or struggling with the aftermath of breast cancer. There's no doubt about it; Nicole is a very different gal than she used to be.
But I'm also very much the same. Well, not the same... better. More sure of a lot of things -- even while I'm unsure about some of the biggest things in my life. One thing that I am really starting to get (and pardon me for getting this so slowly) is that I am one sexy mugg! (laughs) I don't mean that in a "see, I told you she thinks she's cute" sort of way. But in a "I know who I am, I know what I am and I'm cool with all of it" kind of way.
The past few days, I have been shown and reminded that every woman has an inner sex kitten that is clamoring to come out and say hello to the world. And that includes myself as well as my pink ribbon sisters in their various stages of healing. When I was bald from the chemo people kept telling me that they thought I was beautiful. I thought they were crazy. Then I agreed with them... and then I thought they were lying again. (laughs) And today... I think they were being kind (maybe too kind) but they were also right. I was beautiful. And I still am.
I'm saying all of this because I want my outward appearance to match the way that I feel inside about myself. Women often let themselves go because they stop having time (or making time) to focus on themselves. Maybe they gain weight after having kids or getting married. They may work too many hours to really focus on eating correctly or working out. You know all of the excuses. But MY biggest excuse was that I had just gone through breast cancer. My body wasn't the same. The period after I lost my breast was devastating. I wondered repeatedly how I would ever feel sexy again. Some days I did, most days I didn't. When I had my reconstruction done, I felt better. But then I realized that I was still going through those roller coaster emotional highs and lows -- one day I felt strong and feminine and sexy and then I felt damaged and broken and ugly. And it went on and on this way for many months.
Exhausting.
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
Team Up with Year Up 3-on-3 Basketball Tournament
The Team Up with Year Up 3-on-3 Basketball Tournament is an excellent opportunity to make a difference for one of the most vulnerable segments of our community and enjoy some friendly competition.
When: Saturday, March 5, 9AM to 2PM
Where: Basketball City, 35 Lomasney Way, Boston, MA (near the TD Garden)
The registration fee is $250 per team of 4, or $120 team of 2 (matched with two YearUp students) and includes tournament play (this is a double elimination tournament with 32 teams), prizes for the tournament winners, a silent auction, a t-shirt, snacks, and lunch.
For more information about the tournament, pleasecontact Michael Goldstein at (617) 542-1533x1568 or mgoldstein@yearup.org.
Sunday, February 20, 2011
Types of Cancer – Sarcoma, Carcinoma, Leukemia, and Lymphoma
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
I'm tired of being mad, sad, frustrated, aggravated...
Cool? Cool.
So, here I am a few days after v-day... nursing a headache because I've spent the past two days gobbling down so much chocolate that I think I may have sent my body into some sort of shock. Its been wonderful. I received some fantastic gifts from people who love me and think I'm great. One of those gifts came from myself. Yep. I chose to love on me this valentine's day and I have to tell you that I am so thrilled with myself.
I am single. I'm not actively dating any one person in particular though I do date a bit. I go out when invited and have fun. I also go out alone quite a bit and enjoy the company of myself too. (Do you feel a theme here?)
A few days before valentine's day, I read a blog post from another breast cancer survivor and it really helped to solidify the way that I decided to approach this year's love holiday. My pink ribbon sister is dealing with metastatic breast cancer. That means that her cancer returned and now it has advanced to her bones and other organs and basically... there isn't much hope for a cure at this point, they are simply trying to manage her pain and help her deal with the inevitable. She will likely die from this disease. As I read her post and empathized with her anger, I realized that my choice to love the LOVE holiday was a good one.
Back when I last had a boyfriend -- which was during the beginning of my cancer treatment -- valentine's day came along and I was so excited at the notion that in the midst of all the craziness of my life with breast cancer, I would have an opportunity to ignore the madness and fully focus my attention on showing my guy that I really loved and appreciated him. And then I was hit with a brick wall. My guy didn't like valentine's day. Refused to celebrate it. And even better, he was going out of town that weekend to spend time with friends. To say that I was severely disappointed would be an understatement. To say that I'm still angry about it would be really true. Here's the thing... I understood that he was "unhappy" and felt that I had not been paying enough attention to him. Personally, I thought it was some crap but his feelings were his and just because I didn't agree didn't mean that they weren't valid. But considering that valentine's day came about a month after I had lost my breast and about 6 weeks after I ended my chemo... a nice time with my guy was something I looked forward to. And yes, my heart was broken that he decided that I wasn't worth his energy.
So... two years later I'm still a little pissy about that sorry valentine's day. But I'm not sad about it. I'm angry that I wasted my precious energy being sad back then. I can't (and don't plan to) change anyone's mind about valentine's day. I love it. I don't plan on stopping. I still have the valentine's day card that my high school boyfriend gave me. I haven't looked at it in years but I know that its in the box on the shelf in my closet. I'm that kind of girl, you know? When someone shares a piece of themselves with me... I treasure it. I keep it and I think about it. Because it is a true gift and you can't under estimate its worth. And when someone shows you that they don't look at life the same way that I do... I file it away so that I don't disturb them in the future with the things that bother them if I can help it. When my then-boyfriend told me (yet again) that he didn't like or appreciate my fondness for certain holidays, I filed it under... "crazy things about this dude that I love"... and kept it moving.
Fast forward two years... I'm single. I'm cancer free. I'm slowly getting my sexy swag turned all the way up. I'm dating -- as much as my little heart and always crowded calendar will allow. I have hair and its cute hair. Very curly, quite stylish. I'm feeling peaceful about a lot of things. But those few days before valentine's day when I was feeling "some kind of way" and I couldn't put my finger on it... I was once again mad with myself. For all of the things I could complain about in my life (like everybody else) I knew that I really just needed to focus on all the ways that I am super-duper blessed and keep it moving.
Look, I'm tired of being mad. I'm tired of being sad. I'm tired of being aggravated by other people, stupid situations and really unfortunate circumstances that life brings to my doorstep. No, I wouldn't wish breast cancer on my worst enemy. Hell, if I could go back in time and keep myself from getting it, I surely would climb into my Delorean from Back to the Future and stop this mad train from running me over. But I can't. And since there isn't a cure yet... I can't keep anyone else from getting it. What I can do... is try to help other people be more comfortable with the idea that IF it happens to them (or someone they love) they can get through it -- no matter how it shows up. Whether it shows up and just is a huge and expensive inconvenience or it is a large and looming deadly event... you can still be YOU and function in this world.
So, this year, I decided that in the midst of all the madness that I'm going through and all the wonderful blessings that are heading my way... I decided that I wanted something nice just for me. And that gift to myself brought me more joy that you can really imagine. The icing on the cake was receiving gifts of love from some of my favorite little people in the world and receiving all kinds of happy text messages and smiles the entire day. It was a good valentine's day for me. I hope that it was a good one for you too.
Next year... maybe I'll take myself on a trip someplace tropical and warm. (smile)
Monday, February 14, 2011
Cancer - General Questions
Friday, February 11, 2011
Guest post: Maurice Judkins, Breast Cancer in Black America
His post really is like a love letter to all of us who have been through this or who are concerned about it. (Which should be all of us)
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Breast Cancer in Black America
Although, we (African Americans) are a quite resilient race--we love our culture, our family, and our heritage but sadly, not our bodies. We willingly ignore health related tell- tell signs. Age specific diagnostic exams are often waved off. They are thought to be more of a hassle rather than help. Many think if we are feeling fine there is no need to have a mammogram or other recommended exams. And even sadder yet, we fear if you seek you SHALL find. The fact of the matter is that African Americans have the highest cancer rates of all racial ethnicities, yet we feel less at risk.
According to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), cancer is currently the second leading cause of death in the United States following Heart Disease. With that said, my sistas, please, listen:
Wake up! Wake up and take control of your health, your beauty and of course, your life. You all are and will forever be the backbone of the Black man and our culture. Without you we would cease to exist! Cancer is a very serious deal and of course very frightening. Most equate the feeling of receiving the bad news with that of being punched in the stomach multiple times. You are flooded with emotions and immediately feel it is a death sentence. Fortunately, this is not the case in very many instances. Yep, most cases are highly curable.
The first step is detection. Early detection in all forms of cancer is the key. Every young lady should perform a self breast exam monthly. Usually two to three days after your menstrual cycle. Dr M. Punukollu describes how to successfully perform this exam below.
Stand in front of a mirror with your upper body unclothed and pressing both hands behind your head.
Look for changes in the shape and size of your breasts.
Check for dimples of the skin or "pulling in" of the nipples.
Check for scaling or a rash on your beasts and nipples.
Next, place your hands on your hips and press firmly inward, tightening your chest muscles, while looking at your breasts for any change in their usual appearance. Perform leaning slightly forward and again while standing upright.
How should I feel my breasts?
In fact, there are three different methods that can be used, all equally effective. It is important that you choose the method that you are most comfortable with and use the same method each month.
Circular method
Use the hand opposite the breast you are examining, beginning at the outermost top of your breast.
Press the flat portions of the second, third and fourth fingertips into your breast.
Move in small circles slowly around your breast, working toward the nipple.
Press gently to feel tissues under the skin and more firmly to feel deep tissues.
Cover all areas of the breast.
Repeat for the opposite breast.
"Wheel Spokes" Method
Imagine your breast is divided into sections, like spokes dividing a wheel.
Begin at the outermost top of the breast.
Press the flat portions of the fingertips into your left breast, moving first toward the nipple, then away from the nipple.
When you complete that section, slide your fingers slightly to the next area and repeat the process, gradually moving around your entire breast.
Repeat for your opposite breast.
Grid Method
Begin at the innermost portion of the breast, near the breastbone.
With the flat portions of the fingertips, move down your breast, pressing firmly and gently.
Slide your fingers slightly and move up your breast, then down, and so forth until the entire breast area has been examined.
Repeat for the opposite breast.
Lying down
Masses in the lower part of the breast may be more easily felt lying down.
To examine your left breast, lie flat on your back with a pillow or folded towel under your left shoulder.
Raise your left arm over your head.
Use the flat portions of the second, third and fourth fingertips of your right hand to examine your left breast with one of the above methods.
Press gently to feel tissues under the skin and then more firmly for deep tissues.
Repeat for the right breast.
Standing up
Masses in the upper part of the breast are easier to detect while standing upright.
Place your left hand behind your head, and with the flat portions of the second, third and fourth fingertips of the right hand, examine your entire left breast by one of the methods described.
Repeat for your right breast.
Nipple area
Gently squeeze your left nipple between your right index finger and thumb and look for any discharge.
Repeat for right nipple.
Additional areas
Check the area between the upper outer breast and your armpit, as well as the armpit itself.
Check the area just above your collarbones for enlarged lymph nodes.
Another early detection tool is having a mammogram performed annually beginning at age 40. However, if you have a family member with a history of breast cancer or any other form of cancer I would advise having it done sooner. Please consult with your primary care physician about your specific case.
According to Science Daily ( Mar 22 2009)
African Americans have a shorter life expectancy than whites, and cancer plays a major role in this disparity. African Americans are more prone to get cancer; they tend to present at a later, deadlier stage; and they have poorer survival rates after diagnosis
What the heck IS this?! Seriously!!! We are much smarter than this! Take the first step. Get the exams done, get informed. Read, black people! Tell your mothers, your grandmothers, your sisters and even your brothers and fathers. Yes, that’s right. There is one percent breast cancer prevalence in men. Studies show that black men are more likely to die from breast cancer than our white counterparts.
This disease is not the end. Yes, there are many facets and disparities that come with it but YOU CAN FIGHT. There many black women living happy, healthy and successful lives post breast cancer battles. Take control!
I tell my patients that wellness begins with mental wellness. A positive and optimistic attitude can move mountains… let that marinate.
For more information you can visit the American Cancer Society website. http://www.cancer.org/
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Thursday, February 10, 2011
Cancer Spread or Metastasis Process
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Development of Cancer Cells
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Body Cells and Their Development in the Body
Know about cancer facts
Cancer – Know the Origins, Avoidance, and Healing
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Saturday, February 5, 2011
Friday, February 4, 2011
HA! HA! HA! Rebuilding Together Boston Comedy Night
Thursday, February 3, 2011
Webinar: African-American women and triple negative breast cancer
Triple negative breast cancer affects my pink ribbon sistagirls in a major way. Susan G. Komen Foundation is holding a free webinar to discuss this particular strain of breast cancer and its impact on black women. The details are below. I hope that you choose to tune in and learn about it.
~Nicole
PS. I did not have triple negative breast cancer. But I do know several women who have struggled with this disease and it is very difficult to manage.
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UPCOMING:
2/14/2011 - Triple Negative Breast Cancer in the African American Woman
3-4 p.m. CST / 4-5 p.m. EST
Please join us for a discussion on triple negative breast cancer in the African American woman. Over the last couple of years, triple negative breast cancer has received a lot of attention from the breast cancer community. In spite of this “buzz,” women who are diagnosed with this form of breast cancer are confused about what the diagnosis means and do not understand their treatment options or their risk. Our two speakers for the hour will be Dr. Olufunmilayo Olopade from the University of Chicago Medical Center and survivor and Komen advocate, Tina Lewis.
PARTICIPANTS MUST REGISTER TO JOIN THE WEBINAR BY CLICKING THE LINK BELOW. AFTER THE WEBINAR, YOU CAN CLICK THIS LINK TO HEAR THE RECORDING.
http://us.meeting-stream.com/susangkomenbreastcancerfoundation_021411
This event is being streamed. It is recommended that you listen via your computer speakers. If for any reason you are unable to stream, you can listen to the audio via the telephone by calling:
Telephone (ONLY if you cannot listen through your computer): ( 877 ) 633 - 6595
Conference ID: 38804979
NOTE: Please click the link below to easily test your internet connection prior to joining the meeting:
Connection Test: http://test.meeting-stream.com
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
WalkBoston's Annual Meeting
Join WalkBoston for its annual meeting on March 24th, 2011. Attendees will learn how WalkBoston is making Massachusetts more pedestrian friendly. This year’s theme is “Good Walking is Good Business” and the featured speaker will be Carol Coletta of CEO’s for Cities.
Where:
Wilmer Hale, 60 State Street, 26th floor, downtown Boston
When:
5:30 enjoy complimentary wine and nibbles
6:00 program begins
Cost:
$20 suggested donation
More information at www.walkboston.org
RSVP at info@walkboston.org
Kathryn Henderson
Community Outreach Coordinator
YWCA Boston
140 Clarendon Street, Suite 403
Boston, MA 02116
F: (617) 585-5499